The Beauty of Hands
March 1st, 2010Nichole Lupo
I have always been a hands person. Let me be clear—I’ve always looked at, noticed, observed people’s hands. Not with any sort of judgment or criticism, mind you, but with curiosity, fascination, and interest. As an only child with a relatively small family, I’ve always been intrigued by how folks look alike and how their common genes express themselves in unique ways. I think hands are cool to check out and inspect, as family members often share this frequently overlooked characteristic. I mean, my hands look way more like my Aunt Melanie’s than my mother’s or father’s. And let’s face it—hands are incredible because they have the ability to build, create, nourish and comfort. Let’s just not talk about their ability to desecrate or destroy. In particular, I always noticed my great-grandmother Bertha’s hands. She was my dad’s grandmother, and she lived just down the road from us on many acres of land she used to farm. She was a fearless woman, in my eyes, because she lived alone as an old woman and was utterly self-reliant. She wasn’t afraid of snakes or thunderstorms or really dark nights with no stars. Again, I was little, so these were things I thought all people should fear. She churned her own butter, made her own preserves from the scuppernongs and muscadines growing along the fence, and her homemade peach ice cream was THE highlight of my summer eating. She always told me that we came into the world having everything we needed to survive, including the intelligence to figure out all of the tools nature provided us.
Now that I’m older, I value the examples my great-grandmother set more than I can express. They weren’t lessons per se, as she never made a point of admonishing or preaching. But in her quiet way, she imparted a lot. She wasn’t fussy or picky—you ate what you had available to you and wore the clothes that fit and were in good shape, and you made the most of it and were grateful for all of it. She wasn’t gossipy or nosy—she was way too busy to concern herself with the comings and goings of others. More than anything, though, I remember her strength—and the strength of her hands. She could seemingly do anything with those hands. She could feed me, sew my pants, patch my skinned knees, and work a hoe and shovel like nobody’s business. While they may not have been pretty hands by today’s standards, I thought they were beautiful. And I still do.
My fears nowadays are a little different. I’m afraid of how little we work with our hands—or know how to work with our hands. I worry about the way our education system structures things so that we don’t engage our students’ hands enough in learning. But above all, I’m concerned at how little we value things created by hands.
I attended the Georgia Organics Annual Conference and Trade Show last weekend in Athens, Georgia, and as always, it was an informative and enlightening event, to say the least. It was a fantastic coming together of folks from all different walks of life centered on healthy, delicious, sustainably grown food. As you could likely gather, while there were all types of co-producers there (as Carlo Petrini of Slow Food so appropriately calls us), the stars of the show were the farmers. Rightly so, in my opinion. The chefs were lauded too for their creativity and exquisite expression of their craft; but really, where would chefs be without gorgeous, tasty ingredients with which to showcase their abilities? And oh my, the hands that surrounded me. Hands weathered by time and hard work and long hours. Hands gnarled with arthritis or calloused by abrasive tasks. Hands scarred by burns and cuts and scrapes, or dried and cracked from exposure to sun, wind, and extreme temperatures. Hands that obviously reflected the many hours spent in the soil, in the water. These hands have a story; and they have an innate intelligence all their own. These are the hands that I want to know.
And, quite frankly, these are the type of hands I want our students to become more familiar with. The reason is that all these proud, hard-working hands are attached to some of the most dedicated, resourceful, ingenious people with which I’ve ever had the pleasure of spending time. With all our educational emphasis centered on learning inside a building while sitting at a desk in preparation for testing and more testing, when do our kids get to learn the value of knowing how to feed themselves? When do we instill in them the importance of time-honored traditions, of crafts and techniques that have been passed from generation to generation? At what point is it okay to let children know that folks who work with their hands for a living aren’t less intelligent or less capable, or less honorable, than those that work in areas that require fewer manual abilities? Huge disclaimer—I am by no means advocating less schooling. I’m a firm believer in formal education and all the opportunities that open up as a result. I am, however, simply pointing out that with all of our advanced degrees and bountiful research and experts on this topic and that, we as a society seem to know less and less about providing for ourselves. And we as a culture seem to steer our children away from learning these invaluable skills in favor of more intellectual pursuits. I know farmers that are poets and writers and musicians, that are activists and thinkers, and that are astute business men and women. Real movers and shakers, these folks are, with the ability to build a fence and fix a tractor or write a song and cook a gourmet meal. I’ve met construction workers that are sculptors, blacksmiths that are into philosophy, and plumbers that dabble in investments. I also know a few teachers, doctors and lawyers that farm on the side. My point in all this is that it doesn’t have to be one or the other. We can read the great classics AND learn to lay brick. We can study algebra and geometry and put them into practice in a meaningful and practical way. And we can work hard to instill in our children the value of working hard, with our minds and bodies, our hearts and souls…..and with our hands.


The majority of nutrition experts are in agreement that whole foods, mostly from plants, are the best foods for fueling, growing, and regenerating our bodies. These are the foods that our bodies have adapted to eat over tens of millennia. We have all we need to process them into energy and cells right inside us. The modern age has brought with it a whole host of processes that ‘pre-digest’ foodstuffs for us, and in turn make them into things that we were never meant to eat – ‘near food’ or ‘food like substances.’ Advocates of a whole food diet do sometimes miss a turn, though. We can easily glaze past the idea that our modern conveniences have also allowed us to eat fresh whole foods that couldn’t possibly grow in the place that our bodies live. Eating fresh, whole foods in season provides us the best possible source of nutritio
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tomato. The best part is that I don’t have to preach this concept to a group of students who took part in growing their food, learning through every interaction they had along the way. It’s just there, in the garden, in every moment of preparation, and every delicious bite.
Christmas day brought my grandmother’s cheese rings that she still makes from scratch at 91. Various family members tried to help, or even suggested that she take it easy and possibly skip it this year—she simply wouldn’t hear of it. My Aunt Donna’s broccoli casserole, a seasonal favorite, is something I look forward to, not only because it rocks, but because she takes such delight in seeing us enjoy it. My friend Bridget blew me away with her homemade eggnog, a family tradition she keeps alive, even though she lives down south now, far away from her loved ones in the cold north. I could go on and on, but the point is that all of these food experiences had stories—had points of origin. So much surrounding the winter holidays is focused on buying, spending, and consuming—and giving, of course. But we often forget WHY we do the things we do—how these traditions started, why we eat certain dishes, what decided the ingredients to use. People are the ultimate reason—people and their connection to the land. The culture of our people, and the place and climate in which they lived, largely determined what food was served, at the holidays and every day. While those factors don’t always directly impact our lives as they once did, tracing the origin of our holiday food traditions can be a beautiful glimpse into a past time.
Why not include our kids, the future leaders of all things food, in preparing these traditional dishes or in growing the ingredients in a backyard garden. Why not tell the stories, over and over again, while we spend time preparing and sharing good food. After all, it is the sharing of food that is the oldest and greatest tradition of all.
So, this weekend or one night this week, gather the ingredients for a simple pizza dough. Walk through your favorite place to buy fresh produce, and grab what looks good, maybe something you haven’t tried yet. Try a beet and goat cheese combination, or spinach onions and some crumbled blue cheese, get really adventurous and shave some hard squash and apples. Make yourself a fresh pizza, and send in your photos and comments to: sfreedman@mendezfoundation.org







